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Yes, “got lucky” despite the fact we make our own luck …

But anyway, I saw another one of those mega irritating threads – with a long list of backslappers and Tom Tom’s doing their “awwwwwwwwww look how much she WENT through, Mommy, to get to where she is” … and it was about (I’m saying this from memory but the words are the same) –

“Single black mother who made it big with her stimulus check”.

Now, there ain’t nothing wrong with mothers, fathers, singles, in between’s, anyone’s making it big …

But ever notice that the “single mom” thing is hyped and Tom Tommed beyond any reasonable limit – especially when you have the word “black” attached to it?

I could post the link to the post here, but it makes me cringe, so I won’t.

But a black dude got on there and said the following.

“For Heaven’s sake, stop posting about it like it’s a badge of honor!”

(He was referring to the single black mom thing”.

Of course, he was met with a chorus of boos – as someone right usually is.

I was going to jump in and reply, but didnt.

But really, how often do you see single fathers being praised? Congratulated? Tom Tomed?

Why is it the Mom’s and especially the so called “downtrodden black” mothers (apparently the same women who men their own race call the “crankiest” (I’m being polite!) of the lot) are always “celebrated” – but no-one else is?

On LinkedIn,I saw an older white dude who is finally getting somewhere with his copywriting books and biz (he’s from the UK, I won’t mention him here, but he’s a downright decent guy – one can tell!).

I’m not in agreement with all he talks about – not by a long shot, but he’s too nice to publicly disagree with!

He moved out of his old house. Bought HIMSELF a new one. Gave the old one to his ex, I believe.

Did the “single black mom” do any of that?

I dont think so, my friend.

Dig deeper, and you’ll like see child support and alimony coming in too – as for white dude who raised three young uns by himself, or at least one if I recall right?

I dont think any made it in! Hehe.

A black lady on the thread commented about “this lady’s title is misleading, maybe it’s just a marketing thing“.

I noticed no-one replied!

But anyway, it irritates the heck out of me, but thats that, but important lesson?

Ever notice the REAL SUCCESSES – not the overnight Instagram influencers “here today, gone tomorrow – back to welfare after being deplatformed or what not” NEVER complain about “how tough they had it”?

Do we hear Jeff Bezos complain about his garage, or the lack of funds when he started up, the tiny little office sitting right next to a seedy massage parlor in Amazon’s early days, an office so small that the door almost extended into the office, the 10 or so years Amazon didnt make a profit and so forth – or NOW, for that matter, the fact he’s the #1 charity donor in the world?

Sure I had it out with Amazon a while back.

but true to form, Amazon did the right thing eventually.

Their “advanced” customer service team hasn’t gotten back as yet – but I have a feeling they’re looking into my issue and the very valid complains.

NO company would do that except Amazon, and they continue to have all my business – bottom line.

I dont see Steve Jobs complain about when he was fired from Apple.

I dont see Napoleon Hill complaining about the various hardships he endured over 20 years and even towards the end of his life.

As for yours truly, believe me, I haven’t even gotten into the real juicy “bits” about myself.

Maybe I will someday, I dont know …

But on that note, always remember – there are TWO sides to every person  – the good and bad.

Unless you’re Rahul Mookerjee and his family, of course – in which case there are apparently NO good points to the former, and those that are staring them in the face are either brushed away hurriedly or under the carpet or somehow twisted to make it a good point for someone else (LOL) – this is true for everyone and everything.

(Except for my little girl. She’s the fairest and most fun person you could hope to be around!)

You see a lot of hate for Bezos out there.

How many times do we see his success spoken of glowingly though?

Except on this site, and yes – I dont consider myself to be a “fan” of anyone – but guys like Stallone, Bezos, Donald Trump – all legends in their own right!

And much like yours truly – all very routinely HATED by the majority, and loved by a tiny minority who’d go to the ends of the Earth for them!

And I’m fine with that.

Because that, my friend, is the indicator of whether or not you’re truly succeeding for the long term!

And I’d rather do it without the “crutches” if you get my drift!

Anyway, fitness wise, my courses are the MOST effective – the most trolled as well.

Both for good reason!

Here are the top three trolled books I’ve got –

Pushup Central

Pull-ups – from STUD to SUPER stud – within weeks!

Animal Kingdom Workouts

And of course, Advanced Hill Training is up there too!

And that, my friend, should be reason enough to convince YOU to get these – now!

Not my words – a great customer said it.

And he was right!

Back soon!

Best,

Rahul Mookerjee