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Gawd.

I’ve been ranting on the other site about how social media shedia makes idiots out of us all and how the proof is in the pudding, and how that pudding gets murkier and messier by the day.

And I’ve been talking about the lovely Chloe, and some of her … ugh, what can I say.

“Whats a Bozo” she asked as of late.

‘nuff said?

Well, I did up not one but two posts on that on the other site.

And pat on target, I see another post from her complaining about her boss not agreeing with her and using the word “but”.

Now, I’m not a huge supporter of bosses, employees, or what not, hey.

I do my own thang.

I’m my own “boss”. I dont even call what I do work, hehe. I love it so much!

(and thats prime fodder for the people that say “I do nothing but sit at home”, hehe. Hey. I admit. I don’t “work”. I send emails, make sales, and thats how I LIKE it. Took me a while to work up to it, but the end result is well worth it!).

Anyway …

Back to the lovely Chloe.

My boss gave me some feedback the other day and I didnt like it.

I can see where she’s coming from, and she’s not wrong about certain things. But the way she said it makes me question my abilities in every way, and it only adds up stress and anxiety for me.

Feedback is crucial in the workplace, so is how you deliver them.

I can share one quick tip that you can start using today to improve your feedback-giving:

??????? “???” ???? “???”.

“I think this and that is great, BUT…” The minute someone hears the word “but,” they will forget all the nice things you said earlier and become defensive. People defend themselves, it’s in our nature.

“I think this and that is great, AND it would be even better if you could…”

Isn’t that sound a lot better?

Um.

I’d reply on LinkedIn to this, but I dont want to get into it there!

But really.

If someone says “but” yours truly doesnt go on the defensive.

By the way, the boss is female. Hehe. So female bosses are bad, male bosses are worse (according to Ms. Chloe – remember her rant about “more females should be in charge”?)

How dare I.

I know.

But these feminists cannot seem to decide what they really WANT.

Lol.

Give them men, it’s a problem. Give them women, it’s a bigger (sometimes) problem. Give them in betweens, and they cringe. LOL again.

Anyway, when someone says “but” to me, it doesnt arouse the slighest bit of angst or anger or annoyance.

To me, it’s saying two things.

One, the person in front of you either doesnt agree or is (either rightfully or wrongfully) pointing out what you did WRONG.

And two, it’s for you to disabuse him or her of that notion LOGICALLY.

I welcome “buts”, hehe.

And “and” too. LOL.

And of course, butts too.

Female ones, hehe. Not the kind Bozo Glyn likes (last I heard he likes ALL types. UGH!)

(Hey, to each his own. Nutting against that, pun intended? But … he FORCES his opinion on others about it! And I’ve got PROOF of this bozo hunting down women and asking them if he can “be their servant”).

Yes, really. Hehe.

Anyway … butts.

But a lot of butts out there, especially (bOTH) male and female ones are FAT.

You might be able to bench a cow, my friend.

But …

… If you can’t squat to save your life, or if 10 hindu squats get your heart hammering like never before, then you’re two things.

One, your woefully out of shape. Welcome to the club tho.

And two, you’ve just figured out what a REAL workout is all about.

Strength and conditoning all in one, and I believe a certain “Brad” just figured that one out. Hehe. At least judging by his “heart hammering” email.

And guess what.

KUDOS to him – he’s doing the thing.

But, and , so can YOU BRO.

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Best,

Rahul Mookerjee

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