The difference between hero worship and just “admiring”
- There's a world of difference!


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Ever seen people (in general) gawking at someone who they think have “made it” – and gushing platitudes about him like there’s no tomorrow?

Like he can (or she can, though oddly enough or maybe not, most of the real big successes in this world, both in today’s world and before) – are men!

Dont get me wrong, there are plenty of great women out there that have done great things.

Especially pre 1960’s, but the expectation from men has always, my friend, been at a much and far higher level than women.

When men fail, or dont make it, or are stuck, they get brick bats x 100.

When they (the “chosen few” if you can call it that – I call the perservering few) finally crack the gates of whatever it is they want to achieve and (usually) big money follows, then, and only then, the nutjobs start to swoon.

“Ooooh, look at him!”

“He must have really worked hard! Poor guy!”

ALL mention of other so called evils which they would never excuse on a “normal person” – such as infedility when it comes to Nazi feminists (ever notice how these Nazi feminists call men out up and down for being unfaithful, yet when a man with money is that way, they not only overlook it, but themselves wish they could be the woman’s position?) – ill temper or bad manners (he’s the boss! Thats just his way of speaking – I was told when I mentioned a certain boss back in the day who I loved – but cussed a lot. Not as much as me admittedly, but really – why was it OK for him and not me? Because he was the GM of some company that later went under!) – “deserting” family “oooooooh look, he’s got so much money!” – if we’re talking Doctors and Bozos, “so what if they’re fat! They’re doctors!” (I’ve written tomes on that stupidity … hehe) – and so forth – FLY out of the window.

Eyes watering as yet?

Good, hehe.

But it’s true.

That, my friend, is the TRUE example of a person – firmly in the majority these days who “hero worships”, but does exactly F all in their own lives to get to where that other person is.

I used to get irritated before with these discussions.

Because to me, if you’re discussing the other person, you gotta discuss his or her FAILURES more than the ultimate success.

The rule states you gotta fail, and pick yourself up yourself after mammoth setbacks, blunders, mistakes, attacks and everything that could happen in order to truly succeed – or get to your real goals.

Sometimes, and often, you fall – AGAIN – from that lofty peak.

Hey.

I’ve been there.

It happens!

But do these hero worshipping soap opera obsesseed Bozos ever talk about that?

Never ever. Not one single time!

Look at what is happening with President Trump – one of the best and greatest ever.

Twitter was right in that “out of sight, out of mind”.

Already a lot of people globally have “forgotten” him.

And all the good he did …

Not only that, people have written him off as a one time wonder.

True, the Trumpinator isn’t the person I’d look up to if I were to ask “how to start a business” – because he’s always had a solid base behind him. Silver spoon in his mouth, and so forth.

But the Donald has several solid qualities other than that which caused his father to “choose” him in that regard over his other siblings.

A lot of the same qualities I do.

Fiercely competitive. Not giving an inch. Finding a way to get what he wants – no matter what. Playing dirty when required. Most of all, perhaps – always in attack mode!

Not caring what others think.

Not bending to someone else’s will!

And so forth.

Yet, Bozos globally have forgotten all this, because “he’s not the President”.

Dont be surprised if he shows up again in 2024 in the White House, hehe.

This doesn’t mean “everything Trump does is right, and I woul dnever criticize him”.

Nope.

And therein lies the difference between hero worship – and admiring/learning (with the goal of BETTERING) someone – while the world laughs at you, taunts you saying “you’ll never make it big” – and “he did it, but you never can”.

Believe me, this will come from those you consider closest to you! (if you’re really trying).

Ask any guy or gal that has succeeded at the highest level, and they’ll tell you of the fierce criticism and naysaying they had to put up with.

Most of all, perhaps, they will NEVER seen the work you put in either before – the long hours – the slog – the work you’re putting in now – be that for your own benefit or theirs …

I once told a person about the fitness brand I built from scratch – and my other brands.

Oh, so what! Youre just a small company with a following, but thats it!

Before that, this person told me “I did nothing in my own life” (despite me listing out my accomplishments in a very logical fashion – thinking back, I should have just agreed with her. Hehe. Thats what I do now!)

Now, of course, if you ask what THAT person did in her (and believe me it applies to certain men too) OWN LIFE?

Less than zero from an achievement perspective, unless you count “pester”, badger, play games and “wind up” as achievements…

I dont get it, but people are that stupid sometimes!

You can either get angry, spew it all out – – or you can do the smart thing, channel that emotion into YOUR thang!

Like I’m doing now, hehe. Like I’ve always done over the ages!

Then of course, the idiots who claim “he doesnt know anything about success” because you dont have 15,000 mansions in Beverly Hills or what not.

Yet, when it comes time for money, for anything, guess who they ask …

And of course, when you tell these people something about improving their own lives – how dare I!

Goose and gander – how dare I!

Trick lies in realizing, and it took even me a while to get there, I must admit – that sometimes you gotta pick your battles.

And if you’re battling someone that has no real desire to improve, based upon his or her actions clearly never ever will, makes sure to blame his or her problems on everyone else as opposed to their own selves, and so forth – then it’s better to just ignore the person.

Gotta pick your battles, or, as Jeff Bezos rightly once said “you can choose what you choose to invest your time and energy in”.

(And no, I’m not saying just because Bezos said it or because he’s “greater than I could ever be” (I’ve been told that nonsense too) or whatever. I’ve been living this way my whole life!)

Feel good battles with no results don’t really accomplish a lot …

Results, my friend, are what will eventually mark YOU as a leader or not.

You gotta do it first .

You gotta BE in the trenches first.

You gotta give first.

And on that note, I’ve already talked a lot about my own life – the ups and downs, so I wont start again.

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And of course, for some odd reason?

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Those that want in – get it now!

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Well, my friend, I’m out for now.

Back soon!

Best,

Rahul Mookerjee

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